![]() Never is there even the tiniest hint that anything is expected in return - in fact, extremely advanced 2/3 sometimes becomes so good at giving that the recipient never finds out where the help came from (or even that it has happened). ![]() They become genuine, loving companions.Īn extremely awake 2/3 is someone whose generosity is so continuous and so genuine that it seems to be an inseparable part of the personality. Two integrates to four, opening up new realms of creative expression, while the three goes to six, bringing in a deeper appreciation of the value of belonging to a real community of friends. They no longer need the constant reassurance of someone else's admiring gratitude. Image-consciousness and pride drop away and they become able to experience real, heartfelt love. Healthy 2/3s get beyond the immediate desire to please. The twoish desire to please others is stronger than the threeish desire to be admired, although both desires are present. The three-wing gives them a showy, mainstream kind of appearance-consciousness. 2/3s usually have a seductive, playful side, unlike the more serious 2/1s. The ambitious vanity of three combines with two's desire to be loved, and the result is someone who is not afraid to step into the spotlight. Of course, 2/1s can also be found doing many other kinds of work.Īverage 2/3 is more outward than 2/1. There are 2/1 actors, doctors, flight attendants, and comedians. Others find fulfillment by being helpful wives or husbands, managing their homes with firm correctness. Disciplined helpers like nurses, dental aides, secretaries, telephone operators. Hosts of children's TV shows, TV chefs, kindergarten teachers, professional nannies, museum guides, school principals, authors of children's books. Some 2/1s find work that helps them take care of other people while also teaching. They might have a tendency to be a little more formal than is really necessary. Like 1/2, they hold themselves carefully erect, and sometimes seem to be looking down their nose. Elegance and poise, quietly distinctive with maybe a sparkle of jewelry or a colorful tie. ![]() Most 2/1s prefer to dress conservatively, but stylishly. In the end, "loving confrontations" may generate such hatred and fear in others that psychotic 2/1 may become the target of violence, as well as the origin. I am doing this for your own good, and it hurts me more than it hurts you. Fourish guilt is submerged and converted into further denial. Self-deception reaches amazing levels as destructive acts are rationalized into hard love. In the name of love, manipulation turns into physical coercion. The most obvious sign of the escalating inner struggle might be increasing facial tension.Įventually, the breaking point is reached. Their inner conflict is as dangerous and powerful as that of the 1/2, but less visible because it is heavily repressed by self-deception. Their increasing self-criticism usually gets repressed, because the vainglory of the two is more powerful in them than the guilt of the one. Unhealthy 2/1s lose the ability to sense their own needs, and become more likely to actually speak their negative judgments of others. Usually it is the least self-sufficient who benefit the most from their endless charity. They plunge boldy into terrifying scenes and bring glorious hope, love, and healing with them. They are especially good at helping those who are in the most desperate possible situations. The result is tolerant, patient celebration of growth and diversity.Īdvanced 2/1s are in contact at the same time with deep love and inspired wisdom. Sevenish joy from one's integration combines with fourish depth and empathy from the integration of two. They enjoy watching people find their own calling, accepting the delightful differences among us. They become able to help themselves as wisely and lovingly as they help others. Healthy 2/1s almost always find that their true calling involves helping others grow, often children. They are less interested in appearing sexy and glamorous than 2/3, and they are more interested in becoming indispensible than 1/2. Overall, they want to put on a happy face, but because of repressed anger (from the one-wing) and repressed personal needs (from the two), their happy face is sometimes pinched with tension. They regulate their behavior carefully, in order to stay polite and proper. 2/1s are tighter and more rigid than 2/3s, but less exacting than 1/2s. Average 2/1 combines oneish judgment with twoish people-pleasing.
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